I do wonder about this, as I am not sure if I have been with two fairly typical men, who have enjoyed their activities and life , but also enjoy time in the man cave and had likely good emotional skills and intelligence. Or if I am actually attracted to love avoidants/anorexics/emotionally unavailable men.
I don't want to put myself through that again. I know the answer is likely that the love addict (ME) is attracted to these types of men. So a plan working on meeting my own emotional needs and addressing the addict behaviours in myself is likely to address the concern.
Hmmmm. How do I recognise a healthy individual who would make a good partner for me?