When we started marriage counseling over a year ago, I was pushing to get things back to normal and did not give husband the space he needed because I didn't understand it. Things escalated from there. So you are right that I have to go slow and be patient. I just feel pressured by time.
I don't know what actions to even do anymore. Before BD he just wanted me to stop with relationship talks, after BD he wanted me to stop with asking him about reconciliation. I stopped at end of October and now what do I do....basically am doing nothing. Which is probably all I can do.
What does he want? Me to go back full time is a big one. But I can't do so under these circumstances. This topic is a bit of a power struggle
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
