No Ciluzen, as far as I'm aware he hasn't done it to others before BD.
You're right, it is very cruel, they have both been saying to me all evening, "You said Daddy was coming round tonight." All I can do is say sorry he hasn't come, he told me he was coming tonight.
I honestly don't think he cares that he is damaging his relationship with them. I am so shocked at this side of the situation. Maybe I should start sending texts asking where he is or asking if he's still coming over in future when he does this?
