So, H is a definite no show again. I haven't text to find out why, I never do when he doesn't show, but I'm wondering if I am being unfair to the kids by not doing? S keeps asking if I'll text him to find out if he's still coming whenever he does this. I have been so tempted to go and see if the car is at his Dad's but have thought better of it. What would it really achieve? It doesn't really prove anything when I think about it. He could have walked to the local pub or he could have been picked up by someone in their car and the car would still be there. It would only prove something if the car wasn't there. The most annoying thing about it all is that he will come round tommorow (or whenever he decides to show up next) and act as though he has done nothing wrong. He never starts with "Sorry I didn't come round yesterday as promised I was...". It is never mentioned unless S or D ask why he didn't come round. I can't believe he can keep doing this to our children.
