Hope you are having a good weekend and that you are giving your brain a rest. You have had s lot to go through recently.YYou don't need to digest it all at once.

Best wishes as ever

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together