The begining of the rest of my new life? (3)

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I love the waiver ripe, I think I may do the exact same thing.

I wouldn't send that email. The end is full of trying to shame and guilt her and will not help the situation but you already know that. Yes, D and separation is hard on the kids but it doesn't mean they will never have a family again. They will always have a family as long as you are there for them, it just wont be the same as it was before.

Your anger at the situation and wanting her to see the consequences of her actions are driving the last two sentences you wrote. I understand where they come from but it won't help to throw the guilt in her face. She will either see it herself one day or ignore it, you can't control that.