Incidentally I did spew back I called this part of me screaming banshee and I did stop her.

Know this the emergence of this part of you is to protect you. When this emerges be clear that means your subconscious is preparing to defend you.

This is good, better than numb and doormat.

It is part of your journey to your boundaries, you do not have to justify anything, as a human it is your right to enforce your boundaries for respecthe. That shows you have self respect and self worth.

There is no way WH will change his views on anything, if they really are his views! Things can be said in order to achieve confusion and effect. So "yes WH you have said that I don't agree. Let's agree to disagree". I once said to WH, "yes, I get it, it's my fault you lost when gambling today". It shut him up for nearely two days.

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW