Tx, I am going to find out one way or another but right now I am letting her simmer in her own pot of sh!t stew. I am in the house and have the kids for the most part and I feel like that puts me in a pretty powerful position. I feel like she is going to find out pretty quickly that she has a big mess to clean up.
Sandi, I really appreciate the help you have given here. I do believe she is wayward and has been testing me and stringing me along. I've been pretty tough with her at times but not consistently enough I don't think . I'm getting there.
Inpain, I am sorry to hear that your foolish H decided he feels that way. I take comfort in the fact that it is a decision and feelings do change.
Take care
M: 39 W:38 D: 11 S: 7 T: 18 M:13 I suspect problem: 8/15 ILYB: 9/15 Never quit on love I ask her to leave:10/15
