I talked to my IC and we agreed that, given the circumstances ,I can delay giving STBXW the divorce as this is in the best interest of the children. Sometimes I have to simply consider what is more important, even if it seems that STBXW should be the one deciding if she wants insurance or not. Her choices irradiate to my kids and should not leave that out of site.
Me43 W39 M 12y,T 15y S09,S07 Bomb Jun14 Sleeping separately Jan/Mar15 Share bed Mar/May15 Reconcile Jun15 Aug15 W sais D will happen D told to kids Sept15 W moved out with kids 01 October15