I talked to my IC and we agreed that, given the circumstances ,I can delay giving STBXW the divorce as this is in the best interest of the children.
Sometimes I have to simply consider what is more important, even if it seems that STBXW should be the one deciding if she wants insurance or not. Her choices irradiate to my kids and should not leave that out of site.


Me43 W39
M 12y,T 15y
S09,S07
Bomb Jun14
Sleeping separately Jan/Mar15
Share bed Mar/May15
Reconcile Jun15
Aug15 W sais D will happen
D told to kids Sept15
W moved out with kids 01 October15