Huddy, you are right to not let yourself be bullied but you came across as being controlling yourself.Just because she asked/wants you to do something is not a reason not to do it. I think you are right in what you are doing but sometimes are borderline to crossing over where you don't want to go.

Just a friendly observation.....not a critic.

Without giving false hope I think you may get her back. If you still want her
by then!

All the best.


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together