Wife checked out (2)

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2ltl2lt,
I think I am in the same situation as you are. After more than one year of marital crisis, I am pretty sure - as much as one can be - there is no OM.
STBXW simply considers divorce is the only remedy for her unhappiness.

I will never understand being able to walkout on your own children and lifestyle because she felt the MR was so bad

I am with you one this.
The other day STBXW was telling me, between tears, that she did not know what more to do with our S9 who kept showing his anger towards her because he knows her mother was the one wanting the separation.
And then she said this: "I have exhausted all my resources and knowledge. I don't know what else to do with our son. I feel like quitting, but of course I will not do it. He is my son."
I wanted to say: "And what about our marriage?"