Flight's Thread #2

[runn79r]

Very interesting. I think that is the hardest part and the one I worry about handling the right way the most, is what to do when they start trying to connect with you again.

I've certainly noticed the pattern of testing and I've also noticed the times where in the past I would have been drawn in. Something as simple as lingering in their presence. It's such a simple thing that you would do with any acquaintance that you enjoy spending time with but with a person in their situation it is completely different. I've found it helps immensely to maintain a degree of power and certainty by making sure interactions always end on my terms (one of the rules). Such a simple thing and helps to protect yourself which I think is the #1 priority.

Good luck in the days to come. Cautious distance will always be your friend. That being said what you did standing up against a damaging rumor is a wise move. It truly makes you the lighthouse, standing on your principles and being a safe place from a distance (no betrayal).