I've been pondering on something for a few days that I just can't seem to straighten out in my head. W has essentially left the MR to carry on like a 20 year old single party girl. The struggle I keep having is that there was no particular OM and she didn't leave me for her soul mate or something like that. She just left me. i am bringing this up because it seems the overwhelming majority of the posters here and on other sites are dealing with one particular OM/OW. My W is just conducting herself as a dumbed down version of Amy Schumer from Trainwreck. My question is did she just leave me because she doesn't want to be with me anymore or is she just going through some unresolved period in her life that she feels she missed out on?
She says she doesn't have "those feelings " for me anymore. Those pesky feelings are really starting to piss me off! I know for sure in my heart of hearts that there is no such condition as falling out of love. It is an oxymoron at best. I will never understand being able to walkout on your own children and lifestyle because she felt the MR was so bad(it wasn't) . Maybe it is a particular OM and she is just portraying it differently, who the hell knows.
Hi 2ltl2lt, I know it's little consolation, but my H has walked out on me and our kids for the exact same reasons as your W. There is no OW in my situation either. Just fallen out of love with me. As you say, an oxymoron at best. I KNOW you can rekindle the spark. I can still make my H laugh even now he's left me and that was the thing that first attracted him to me, yet he thinks it's impossible. We are dealing with crazy unfortunately. Hang in there, I know it's tough.
