I've been pondering on something for a few days that I just can't seem to straighten out in my head. W has essentially left the MR to carry on like a 20 year old single party girl. The struggle I keep having is that there was no particular OM and she didn't leave me for her soul mate or something like that. She just left me. i am bringing this up because it seems the overwhelming majority of the posters here and on other sites are dealing with one particular OM/OW. My W is just conducting herself as a dumbed down version of Amy Schumer from Trainwreck. My question is did she just leave me because she doesn't want to be with me anymore or is she just going through some unresolved period in her life that she feels she missed out on?
I talked about this very thing in my wayward wife threads. There certainly doesn't have to be a singular OM or A, to define wayward. It's true the the majority of the stories here involve A's, however, there have been those who had a W that was acting like a girl gone wild. How much more wayward could a woman get?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
