Late to the game-2

[Free]

Tx, I read your story. This paragraph sticks out for me.

I've evolved from hating cheaters with ever fiber of my being to trying to understand what was going on in their head that would allow them to break the most sacred vow I think a person can make in their lifetime...

I have thought about this often this week. I've gone from "How could she do this?" to "Why did she do this?"
Can't explain it, but I need to know.