Mu, thanks for support. I do think I am doing some things right.
Anc, you are correct. I am still so much in love with her. I do think that she is thinking a bit. No, my conversation had nothing to do with that. I imagine my boys actually talking to her now does. I bet seeing all of our friends and their non-fractured families at all these events does. I think the lack of pressure is probably helping a bit. Or even the bulletin board at the church/nursery school... families are forever because love never melts.
Detach. I know I need to. Haven't figured out how. Something just refuses to click in my head so far. I thought I had a bit of it a couple weeks ago. Lasted until I saw her a few times and our interactions were positive. I have read the links on why it's important. What it can do. Still can't get there. I think I would be a DB ace if I could get that down. Any advice as to HOW to do it?
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....
