I also asked him yesterday if he could at least figure out his schedule a week in advance and he said that he has the right to show up whenever he wants, as long as he's paying the bills. But he wants me to leave when he decides to have time with the kids. So I guess I'm moving up my timeline to move into my parents house.
I'm going to a lawyer Monday or Tuesday. I don't want to have any more in person conversations because it just ends with me sitting on the couch while he berates me. He told me I should've been a better wife and then this wouldn't have happened. I can accept that I wasn't emotionally present for him, but he has spent years hiding money and lying to me (and stealing from his work). I don't deserve to be bullied just because he has been taken over by body snatchers.
