I can see why you would say that Drew, but this convo was actually a rerun of many, many prior arguments we've had over our M. Almost identical. It was bad. Respect is not required of the H (for Christians). However, love is...and honor and cherish. So yeah, it's missing.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?