It’s funny just when I start to think that all is lost and that I’ve given up I hear about something else that offers some kind of hope in understanding and possible improving my sit. After years of battling life with a LD wife I found this board and when the wife blew off the SSM book I thought I was done…now I found myself looking for more information, books etc. So the question I keep asking myself is this, am I being stubborn and dedicated or delusional and stupid. My sit hasn’t changed in 20 years why would it change now?

Speaking of me continuing my delusion - I keep reading about love languages and filling the tank etc… I’m guessing this comes from a book. Can someone point me to the source?