Lonely Hearts Club IV

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Ancaire I love her! I have posted before though that some women will devour a man like me. My counselor has worked with me to stand up for myself and hopefully going forward I will do better. In LHC III I wrote of the need to occasionally be the cowboy. I think for most women it is a requirement. They just can't take nice all of the time. I grew up in a house with extreme confrontation and violence and until I was in my early twenties I was as well. Getting away from my father for a couple of years awakened me to a person who abhors violence and dreads confrontation. I guess it is all about finding the balance of being fun but also challenging to a woman. With my wife I was a challenge intellectually but I think she needed me to once in a while be threatening to her. I am just not that person and perhaps because of that I will never be successful in a long term relationship. I'll not give up however as there is no better feeling than being in love!