My XF had a PA that started over 2 years ago. Lasted for a year. It then became an EA that lasted until BD in December.
He was around for a couple of weeks. Constantly texting and saying he was sorry. But I was like f@ck that and kept him blocked from calling and a couple of weeks ago, he started on the blasted websites.
Spending money we did not and do not have to join various sites. And even if he is being honest (because Waywards are totally known for their honesty right) and it is just to relieve himself. He was/is doing it. He has said he stopped. No way for me to know.
And now he is calling and texting a lot more. And is seemingly worried about family practicalities when he hasn't been. He also got very upset when he called me today and I did not pick up but replied with a text asking him to call me at X time because that is when I would be home.
I was taking my daily walk. And my weightloss project is none of his business. So of course he "respects" my request by calling me back to back to back. I finally answered and all he asked is where are you and who are you with. Neither of which I answered. Just thought...you have got SOME nerve buddy!
Then he called and text for a few hours. His last call was at almost 11pm so I did not answer. I NEVER initiate texts or calls and I STOPPED questioning him. So not really appreciating that he is doing this just because he is uncomfortable thinking there might be someone in my life.
And that is why I said if I had gone there tonight there may have been someone else there. Maybe not. Who knows.
Rain (moi): 40 Ex Fiance: 39 3 kids On/off again EA & PA Last BD by ow 12/15 Moved kids and myself back into our own place: 12/15