And, as far as your fiancé goes, he is the one that created this mess. If you're not ready, or if you think you're done, don't hesitate to tell him that YOU need space. It's HIS fault that you had to move on. But, now that you're trying to, he can't blame you for that. This is his doing. He certainly didn't care if YOU didn't want space when he was with OW. You do what is right for you and your kids. Not to mention that this isn't the first time. What is he doing to reassure you that this will never happen again?
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it