Hi NY, I'm glad you've reached this point and it sounds like a nice living situation for a while - safe, warm & some company. I'm glad to read the gratitude in your post above too - practicing gratitude has helped me during this process too....it makes my H less central when I remember the lovely things I DO have, despite his absence.
Enjoy the peace and the change in lifestyle - you are on a new (albeit unasked for adventure) my friend. Xx
(Oh, and you are right not to focus on W - who knows what she's up to in her sandbox. Keep refocusing away from that...)
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
