May I ask question ? Is it normal that the angry spewing, snarls and rages happen when Husband is at the later half stage of replay ? (I did a lot of research, I read HeartsBlessing's blog, I think that my husband had a first awakening last July)
Bomb dropped on Sep. 2014. Husband had both EA and physical affair with two young women... the first one is his work friend, who is 26 years old, he met the other lady and said they are in love with each other when he claimed that he divorced me and moved out of our apartment last June.
I recognized he's having midlife crisis for below reasons - he liked to hang with young people he had hair style(outfit) changed he had all his money spent he drank a lot (he never like alcohol before) he blame me for everything he came from an emotional polluted family, parents fought to each other all the time. he gave me the speech of "I love you but not in love with you anymore" he told me he felt something was wrong when my grandma died during spring of 2012
I'm standing now. He pushed and forced for divorce many so times. I appreciate your help and reply !!!