Julie, we have some of the same issues. I am tired and don't have a lot to add right now, except to let you know I am reading your posts and will get back to you when I have something to give. Take care Julie, you are asking the right questions and I actually see a lot of hope in your sitch. I will come back to you when my mind is a little more productive. I haven't been around much in the last couple of days. Busy GAL'ing but I'll be back with some support. Virtual hugs and much love to you tonight.