During our conversation the other night he made a point to say something along the lines that me taking on more of the financial burden and sharing that with him and being more ambitious would make me more attractive to him. This is something he brings up anytime we have had a discussion since BD. I I kept my mouth shut. What I was thinking. Maybe I won't get into that now.
But this is a major concern for him. Why? Do I even need to ask?
Truth is, I had planned on taking on more hours when kids started school. He knew this. I was crystal clear in discussing this with him last year. I wanted more money as well.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015