Hi Anc - scenario above has been going through my mind for a week or so - of course it affects me. But I had no real answer to the question.

If I 'trap' her by not moving out , then I guess she has no choice but to file.
She will not move out that is for sure. She can't force me out.

Alternatively, I validate, and agree to what she wants with a few stipulations - like the size of the accommodation - its location - co parenting arrangements and finances of course.

I would have to stop seeing my IC as well - I couldn't afford it.

Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16