Both of my parents are still alive and they are still married. They both have changed alot and my dad has repeatedly stated how sorry he is about how we grew up, my mom has too. Their marriage is better now, if not perfect, and my mom reaquainting herself with God about 10 years ago has alot to do with it. Just last week I called my mom and dad on the advice of my therapist and told them that although I forgive them and love them both, I still had had alot of anger towards them that I was supressing and telling them was part of my therapy. My mom cried of course and I think my dad did too. I love both of my parents and I think that they really tried the best they could and I'm sure having 3 kids by the time they were 24 didn't help.
"Anyone who is among the living, has hope." (Eccl 9:4)
