When I look at my situation from an objective 3rd party perspective I say "jeez, that husband is a sap. She played him for a chump and when she was going to lose him she turned on the waterworks and played him for a sap again because he took her back. That idiot should move on and find something better." That's the God's honest truth what I would think of my situation yet here I am, the sap, staying and working on it. Life can be a real mindf*ck sometimes.
TXHubby
I struggle with this as well. I often hold back when writing on these boards because what I really want to say is, " let them go. You are too good for them. There are others out there that will treat you with respect" Frequently, I tell myself this as well and that is where I believe my anger comes from. And that is when it gets hard to stay committed to the idea of reconciliation. Do you think that reconciliation Can only work when WAS is at that point where they are truly remorseful and basically begging for forgiveness?
I frequently find myself in agreement with many of your posts.
NYGAL
I truly believe that the majority of WAS will not come back until they see that you have moved on And they can sense it.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
