So sorry, hearing that nasty vicious spew must have been so upsetting B. How did you handle it?

Please check the recording laws in your state; many permit recording a conversation with consent of only one party (which would be you in this case). But if you live in a "one-party consent" law state, secretly recording a conversation is a crime.

Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17