Last night

[25yearsmlc]

Whatever your DB coach says once they have all the relevant info, should be followed as best you can. I doubt any vets here would say otherwise.

I base my advice on what I've read here on your thread which you authored (which is about half of all of it, b/c I couldn't find the whole "kyrie" thread)

AND what I understand about DBing from my own coach, and from what worked for me.

But if/when it is in conflict, I would not want to add to your confusion. I'm a fan of DB coaches, big time.

As Jelly said, however, it would be instructive for us to hear how the advice differs.

Could you elaborate?

Also, I can see your frustration with your h bringing things up. Like he just wants to battle.

But I'm not clear about what exactly HIS suggestion is to DO - you as a couple- (other than you change)?

I mean, does he SAY outright that he wants a divorce?

And what is his work situation?

A lot of men tend to really identify who they are by what they do and how much they earn. So I have to wonder what role that plays in this (which is not your issue, but might be part of his--as in, "You must make him feel better that he's not employed")