WW, My Addiction, Patience, and HOPE

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With 3 kids at home, and the job I work, I don't have a ton of free time to kill. I work on Saturdays, and have some time on Sundays and Fridays. Lately, Sundays have been taken up with schlepping kids to activities and getting a few things done around the house. Fridays, my day off, I'm often going to appointments and catching up on laundry.

I do like to head out for a coffee now - spend some alone time reading the books I've been ordering. Need to re-read a few chapters in no more mr nice guy, and divorce remedy. love and respect is half-done.

The wife seems to throw a hissy when I do go out - making mention that I might be seeing someone, or asking 20 questions. She doesn't go out - she's a homebody, and just facebook surfs at night in bed. If I don't tell her where I'm going, she lets me know that I'm not being truthful, and if I want her to be up front and honest, I need to as well.

Should I just tell her exactly where I'm going? I'd love to invite her for coffee, but right now, today, is not a day I really want to spend much time with her. That never used to happen, so there is changes in me that are sticking - for now.

Oh, and I have a calf strain with achilles tendonitis. Need new shoes with more support - my feet are as flat as the Kansas plains. Going for physical therapy as well. The doc said I should cross out doing a shamrock run, aim for summer. Well, I still have my lose 40 by my 40th, so I have 2 months to kill off 15 lbs. Will be joining a gym to get elliptical training instead of running. Fun times!