Thanks Dad, Ancaire and NYGal. I appreciate you guys chiming in. I feel so lost the last few days. I didn't think I'd ever be at a place where I was the one that was confused.
And thanks Cadet for adding the link.
Ancaire....for him this is how he seems to show "love". Worrying about me and what I need and trying to fix things for me.
Recently he has been in his own world and didn't blink when I told him anything. So I guess that's what's strange. During PA he was also in his own little world and let bills slide and car maintenance go out the window on top of the fact that he checked out.
Then he was on top of things again when it became EA yet was emotionally distant. Couldn't even bring himself to call me a pet name.
Now thats all he calls me. Barely ever says my name via text or on the phone/in person. And now he is suddenly concerned about what I need. Well to the extent that he is. Not whole hog or the transparency wouldnt be an issue.
He called earlier to tell me to be careful because of bad weather headed our way. And that's another WTH moment because there was a tornado warning last week and it was really bad and yet he didn't even check on us. But now things are different?
Frustrated and wishing I could afford to pack the kids up and see my family for a few weeks and leave him to his mess and single life.
