Well, still thinking about the things he said. LIke I said, much sounded different than what you're advising. He did stress GAL. He said 2 things H believes fully: that he knows me completely and that I'm never going to change. Sounds true. He didn't say anything else on that though. THought of a bunch of questions to ask after we were done. DUH. He said I should speak up more about what I want/need - this sounded TOTALLY different than the DB stuff. He even implied I SHOULD confront H about the porn and I should continue to try to talk w/him. So I'm really confused.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
