Hi rich4j

I am in an in house separation and it is the hardest thing I have ever had to deal with.

Now I am not the best person to give advice but one thing I am doing is spending as much time as I can with my children building as strong emotional connection with my kids.

I have been given so much great advice and when it comes to reading other people's threads you can pick up so much from doing this.

One of the things that I found helpful is knowing that you cannot control people and even in a marriage you hope they will stay and you believe they will but there is no guarantee after time people do change and sometimes there is nothing you can do to stop this.....none of us want this and will do anything to turn back time

Detach and gal ...I just wish I could take my own advice

Take care and be strong

Ghost


Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.