Help..I am drowning

[rich4j]

thx cadet

I did read a post about Sandi's rules and I did post/ask about sending articles to her on the impact of divorce and especially on children. Seems that's a bad idea with DB'ing

Its just she has the blinders up about how resilient kids are and she was a kid of divorce and she is fine....NOT! I hate the resilient stuff My therapist (and formerly hers) was chuckling when I said this as divorce always impacts children in a negative way no matter how good you co parent and try to make things ok for them

Some of these articles cite facts about this and how divorce impacts kids.

"You shouldn't stay together just for the kids". B.S...you should and it should be a reason you try whatever it takes to get thru the fog and make it work

Of course, I am biased (and struggling)