Trumpet, look around here. You are in a better place than most. It sounds to me as if your wife is questioning, and that is a good thing.
Patience is key for you now. Do not push anything. Continue doing what brought you here.
I have a good feeling that she will break out of the fog.


Me-40's
W- 40's
Married 22, Together 29
BD#1- 6/15 W needs space
BD#2- OM confirmed PA 1/8/16
Still both home, but not for long