Trumpet, look around here. You are in a better place than most. It sounds to me as if your wife is questioning, and that is a good thing. Patience is key for you now. Do not push anything. Continue doing what brought you here. I have a good feeling that she will break out of the fog.
Me-40's W- 40's Married 22, Together 29 BD#1- 6/15 W needs space BD#2- OM confirmed PA 1/8/16 Still both home, but not for long