WW: At some point this weekend, I need to talk to you about next week and the kids.
Me: An email is fine.
WW: No its not. I would like feedback. WW: Are you afraid to talk to me? WW: There are all kid dentist apps at 7am next Tuesday for
You: "I have no reason to be afraid to talk to you". "Just thought an email would work". "I suggest we share a google calendar (or some other type) for just kids scheduling".
I mean seriously, she isn't interested in your feedback! She is going to TELL you what, where, and when the kids have something, period. She is more interested in knowing what you have been doing, and she wants to still have control in your life.
Do not live as though you are her dirty little secret she has stuck in a one room apartment. She has it made, doesn't she? Living in the home, with you supporting her and being there for the kids whenever she has other plans...........and she gets to continue her A.
You are enabling her to lie and cover up her A. She is asking you to lie for her, by going along with the sharade publicly and to your kids/family.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
