Me: Okay, well I've got stuff going on this weekend, so it'd be best to discuss whatever it is this evening early. I need to drop D(11) and S(9) off at the house around 3 or 3:30. You can call me then.
WW: Great! I hope you have something fun planned! Don't have my planner. Will you be around at 6?
So...I was trying to set some boundaries for myself by not letting her dictate that sometime over the course of the whole weekend she could give me a call when she wanted. Thereby ultimately ruining my weekend as I anticipate her calling. I lied about having plans, well kind of, I mean I do have some plans, but mainly I just wanted to get whatever call she feels we need to have over as soon as possible because I don't want it hanging over my head.
Then she responds with the whole "Great! I hope you have something fun planned!" thing...its just...man...she's so gone...its hurts so much to have this woman just act like I am some person, I dont know what...she just feels like she can treat me however the hell she pleases and it simply doesn't matter. But, I guess I should only be concerned with myself...let her comments roll off and away and know that I'm taking care of myself.
My plans for the weekend:
Friday: Go to daughters basketball game and after attend an AA meeting (the AA meetings really help me find focus and calm) Saturday: Go to breakfast with a friend and then after go to a men's meeting with him. Then clean up the apartment a bit, and study for my next exam. Probably play some video games. Then a night meeting where I will pick up my 90 sobriety chip! Yay for me. Sunday: Go to another early morning men's meeting then attend mass. Grocery store for dinner supplies for the kids coming over this week and more studying and maybe some catch-up work.
Anyway...later all. Hope you all have a good weekend.
Me:41 - LBH in apt W:39 - WW in home Kids:D(15), D(11), S(9) - custody % 58/42 M: 15 yrs - DoS: 10-11-15 (PA confirmed 2-12-16; WW dumped by AP 11-6-15; WW dated 7-8 men in Jan '16 via Match.com)
