Should I flat out tell him I need space? I don't know what's happening or if I am giving off some vibe but he text me saying he would like to trade cars so that he can take mine in to get checked. And that "we" need to start looking for another car for me. (<<<thats more like the old him) And that he spoke to his brother about us going to see the family.

I suppose him speaking/thinking of the future and the fact that he is using...us and we...is a positive. But I need him to slow down. I don't know where I am from one minute to the next. So I can not say I will be going on a family trip with him months from now. I responded about the car sitch since it has been giving me issues, but ignored the trip.

Thoughts?