Hi gs9. I'm new here but after reading that last bit all I can say is Wow!!! I feel for you and the children. Great job by not taking her bait and engaging her.
Me:44 W:38 T:10.5 M:7.5 D:3 BD: 7/2015 W moves out of MBR: 9/2015 WW files for D: 2/8/2016