That is why sometimes it is better to just blindly follow advice on here. People tell me all kinds of things I dont agree with, but if I feel really stuck, I just follow and so far it has only helped me.
There are times I dont follow, because I dont agree, but they are not times when I am stuck. If I am stuck, I obey
Me: 42 H: 45 M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs D: 17 D: 15 S: 12 I kicked him out 8/21/15 I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!