That is a great plan, if your wife buys into it. Realizing that only YOU can make you happy is the first step to a better relationship. A spouse should enhance your happiness, not be the source of it. I'm hoping the best for you.
Me-40's W- 40's Married 22, Together 29 BD#1- 6/15 W needs space BD#2- OM confirmed PA 1/8/16 Still both home, but not for long