B's 10-Week Bootcamp

[Bfice3]

If you are separated, why would you feel like you have to sit anywhere near her just b/c she happens to be at the same thing?

Well, this is how my WW started off handling things when my son was doing football in october/november. She wanted us to sit next to each other and basically hide the fact that we were separated.

Looking back now I realize her reasons for secrecy were far different than mine. I thought the secrecy was because we could potentially salvage our M...whereas she was most likely not wanting anyone to think things are different to hide her affair(s).

So...anyway...I recognize that I'm having issue with the notion of how to correctly handle things, and thats why I'm asking here.

(Just to give you an example of where my head is...WW sent me a text about an hour ago saying she needed to talk to me this weekend about the kids and schedules next week. I waited about an hour and sent a message saying only, "An email works fine". So, I mean, I'm having as little direct contact with her as I can possibly have.)