B's 10-Week Bootcamp

[Bfice3]

Hey all.

So, looking for some input here. I'm dropping the kids off at the W's this afternoon. But my daughter has a basketball game tonight. I had forgotten about it, as it wasn't on my schedule of nights. I haven't been invited or reminded by the W, but I asked my daughter if she wanted me to go and she said yes.

Should I go? If I do go, should I sit near my wife?

I mean, on the one hand, I want to go to support my daughter. However, I do not want to pursue or contact my W in any form. Not sure what my boundary here should be.

I'm worried obviously about how I will act/react, and I'm honestly scared to go because its going to hurt so much to see the W.

I don't know. I'd like to hear some of your opinions. Been in no contact pretty consistent for about 3 weeks now. There is basically zero communication between me and the W, only the barest of minimum about kids routine.

If you think I should go, should I notify the W beforehand? And if I go should I sit near her? (I'm scared of being seen as the one to act first in a certain way...but that may be the wrong way of looking at it.)