Ugghhh, have I mentioned this is hard?

[rich4j]

Hopefully she follows your lead. Maybe if she sees you doing this she will follow.

That is what I would try.

It will be hard to for her to GAL...set an example.

As far as the phone thing, you either need to go for it and get it out there so its in the open good or bad or bury it. Being in the middle will eat you alive....