Originally Posted By: npmyst
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Trust in God. That means really letting go, work on yourself, GAL, and believe that whatever outcome occurs, it will be for the best. That may mean bringing your wife back because you all are better for each other now (sometimes we need to go through this in order to learn life altering lessons), or it means there will be something brighter and bigger than you could have ever imagined in the future. Believe it.


I hold on to this.... This is what I pray on everyday. It's a tough pill to swallow as an LBS. Like the rug was pulled out from under you in a life that you considered about average compared to other marriages. How blind we can be when loving someone. God is about the only thing I've learned you can lean on rain or shine. He's shown me things about myself these past 8 weeks that could not have been possible in any other situation than something as extreme as this. I pray that God's plan will align with mine, but know the road may fork from my will.. and that's tough! But it's in his hands.


Me: 33
W: 32
Married: 4/2007
Trial Sep: 12/5/2015
S:5 y/o S:3 y/o
EA w/OM#1 confirmed and ended: 6/12/14
EA w/OM#2 Confirmed 1/7/2016 still continues