For the most part, I get that 25yearsMLC. Here's the thing - HE keeps forcing the issue & the convo. I back off, let go, whatever, and he is forever in my face or texting me that *I'm* being self-absorbed and avoiding our issues. I know I'm not his "judge", his mother, his punisher. THAT's the problem. He is forcing it.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
