NYG -
Im so sorry that you are going through this. It most certainly [censored]. To answer some of your questions:


So tomorrow I move out. W comes back home in the evening. We have no plans to communicate. What now?
You go and live your life!

Do I have to do NC? I'm so confused.
You dont HAVE to. But what is contacting her going to get you? Nothing but hurt! You dont want to do that to yourself. The best thing that you can do for your relationship is to do nothing.

I want to call her now, but I won't.
Tired, sad, having a pity party all by my lonesome self.
Angry, too. That she did this. We had a beautiful life with friends that loved us, nice neighbors, great dogs, pretty house, amazing garden, comforting routines, laughter and love. Now this.
This bites.
Yeah. It does. I wish there was more I could do to help.