Wonka, I'm a vegetarian so I'll bring some tofu dogs to your bonfire. I've been saying the OW adjectives a lot. I'd write them here, but they'd all be censored.

What do I do now? I never sent the email about the financials. It seemed unnecessary. I don't know what I'm doing. Am I going dim? Dark? She was reaching out to me with phone calls, but now that she's traveling, nothing. Have I been too passive? Too clingy? Yes, I know...

The GAL for me will be throwing the last piles of cr@p in my car and then trying to make sense of it when I get to my new place.

It seems I've been waiting for her to call or contact me in some way for weeks now. At what point can I take a more active stance? Or is it too late for that? I don't know what comes next.


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat